I’ve made a very conscious choice to wear faults and failings, as I do my triumphs and adventures, on my sleeve. Sharing thoughts, experiences and feelings with the world; online and often, is commonplace for me. At worst, it opens me up to judgment and scrutiny from strangers and haters. At best it opens up … More Living Life Out Loud and Feeling a Bit Exposed…
After an appalling pregnancy and a crippling case of pre-natal depression that sent my heart and mind to places I never could have imagined, a miracle bursting with joy, laughter and Love arrived in our world very early on a crisp April morning over Easter weekend in 2014. We are a year on now, and … More Bittersweet Birthday in Brisbane. Baby James is One Today
Today is the birthday of one of my most FAVOURITE humans in the whole word. We’ve been friends for nearly two decades now. I am currently fighting with a banana cake attempting to make it look like a heart… Not winning. We’ll be popping in to surprise her at her work later today. We’ll deliver … More Children, chores and failed chocolate chip banana cake.
Not sure about you, but I can’t really help myself looking at other people and feeling more than a little bit inadequate. I have friends who are doctors, lawyers, activists, and working in a variety of other interesting and successful careers. I am 36 years old, and quite frankly, I still don’t know what I … More Envy is an Illusion
I’m bossy. You can sugar coat that and say I’m assertive. Sheryl Sandberg would have us “Ban Bossy” but as many of you know, I am a die hard fan of the simple, unfettered, stone cold and occasionally uncomfortable truth. And the truth is, I often think I know what is best for everyone and … More Careful what you wish for
So every autumn/winter is marble season at the local school. A group of at least moderately geeky kids mobilise themselves to play, trade and battle it out to win rare and cool marbles to add to their collections. I whole-heartedly encourage the children to play marbles. They are timeless, inexpensive, and unpretentious. Trading them and … More Kids Losing (and winning) Their Marbles
Easter weekend saw the met service (that is the Meteorological service – in NZ we call it the met service, and it is our go-to source for all things weather related) spreading gloom throughout our island paradise by telling us all that it was going to be a grey and rainy long weekend. This prospect … More Holidays, Hospitals, Happiness and Hobbitses – Part One
Aside from myself (and our children), I know you better than any other soul on this planet. I know your fears, your faults, all the wonderful things about you that keep me falling in Love with you over and over again – even after all these years. There is a great irony; that you, my … More Dee’s Vows – 14/02/2014 – Valentines Vow Renewal
Yesterday, I was not merely pleased; but ecstatic, surprised, delighted, comforted, jubilant and more than a little bit relieved to be feeling my first real, sustained and absolute peace and acceptance for the wee soul that I’ve been growing for the past few months. I had a regular checkup conducted by a locum, as my … More I Feel Him Rolling – I Ain’t Hating!
Clocks had gone back two consecutive nights now, so in a round-about way we’ve had two consecutive sleep ins. It doesn’t feel that way though. Captain Batboy (our 3 ½ year old) wakes up full of vim and vigour at too early o’clock regardless of what the clocks say. Meanwhile, Grumpy fancies himself quite the … More Touring Tasmania – Part One